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Baby Sleep First Year: Month-by-Month Guide + Safe Sleep

Montessori Parent Guide Team
Editorial Team
April 6, 2026
22 min read
Baby Sleep First Year: Month-by-Month Guide + Safe Sleep
  • baby sleep
  • infant safe sleep
  • SIDS prevention
  • 4 month sleep regression
  • night nursing
  • co-sleeping
  • newborn sleep
  • baby sleep schedule

You have read every article, bought the blackout curtains, and set the perfect room temperature. Your baby is still waking every two hours.

Here is what nobody tells you clearly enough: that is normal. Most of what passes for "baby sleep problems" in the first year is actually normal infant sleep. The real goal is not to make your baby sleep like an adult — it is to keep them safe, support their development, and build small habits that pay off later.

This baby sleep guide covers everything from birth to 12 months: safe sleep essentials, a month-by-month baby sleep schedule, breastfeeding and night nursing, co-sleeping safety, the major sleep regressions, and when to call the pediatrician. No fluff, no guilt, just practical information grounded in current research.

Have a toddler or preschooler? Once your child is past 12 months, Montessori principles have much more to offer — bedtime routines with real choices, floor bed transitions, and growing independence. See our Montessori Sleep Guide (1-6) for that stage.

This guide shares general information about infant sleep. It is not medical advice. Always follow your pediatrician's guidance and your country's safe sleep recommendations.

Table of contents

Safe Sleep Essentials (the Non-Negotiables)

These guidelines come from the AAP's 2022 updated recommendations and are the foundation for everything else in this guide. They apply for every sleep, every nap, every caregiver, every time.

The ABCs of safe infant sleep

  • A — Alone. Your baby should sleep on their own surface with nothing else in it. No pillows, blankets, bumper pads, stuffed animals, or soft objects. Use only a firm mattress with a fitted sheet.
  • B — Back. Always place your baby on their back to sleep. Side sleeping is not safe. If your baby has reflux, back sleeping is still recommended — airway anatomy and the gag reflex prevent aspiration.
  • C — Crib. Use a crib, bassinet, portable crib, or play yard that meets CPSC federal safety standards. These are the only AAP-approved sleep surfaces for infants under 12 months.

What is NOT safe for infant sleep

The following are not approved for routine sleep, even if your baby falls asleep in them:

  • Car seats, strollers, swings, and infant carriers (move baby to a flat surface as soon as possible — babies under 4 months are especially vulnerable in sitting devices)
  • Inclined sleepers, hammocks, or dock-a-tot/baby nest style products
  • Adult mattresses, waterbeds, or couches
  • Floor beds or mattresses on the floor (for babies under 12 months)

Falling asleep on a couch or soft armchair with your baby is extremely dangerous. Research shows the risk of sleep-related death is up to 67 times higher in this scenario. If you feel yourself getting drowsy while feeding, move to the bed and follow the harm-reduction steps in the co-sleeping section.

Swaddling: when and how

Swaddling can comfort newborns by mimicking the snugness of the womb. Here are the safety rules:

  • Use only thin, lightweight blankets. Never use thick or heavy material.
  • Keep hips and legs loose. The baby's legs should be able to bend up and out at the hips. Tight leg wrapping can cause hip dysplasia.
  • Check snugness. You should be able to fit two to three fingers between the baby's chest and the swaddle.
  • Always place swaddled babies on their back.
  • Stop swaddling as soon as your baby shows any signs of rolling. Rolling can begin as early as 2 months, though 3 to 4 months is more common. Once your baby can get their body up onto their shoulder, swaddling becomes a suffocation risk because it restricts arm movement needed for repositioning.
  • Never use weighted swaddles or weighted sleep sacks. The AAP advises against any weighted sleep products for infants — they can restrict chest expansion and breathing.

After swaddling ends, transition to a wearable blanket or sleep sack with free arm movement. These are safe to use throughout infancy and into the toddler years.

When items become safe in the sleep space

ItemEarliest safe ageNotes
Blankets12 monthsUse a lightweight blanket only. Before 12 months, use a wearable blanket or sleep sack.
Stuffed animals or loveys12 monthsAfter the first birthday, a small comfort object poses little risk. Before 12 months, the crib must be completely bare.
Pillows24 monthsThe AAP suggests waiting until at least age 2.
Weighted blanketsNot recommended for young childrenCan restrict breathing. Not safe for infants at any age.

When your baby starts rolling

Most babies begin rolling between 3 and 5 months. Once your baby can roll both ways (back to tummy and tummy to back) on their own, you do not need to reposition them during sleep. However, the sleep space must remain completely clear of blankets, pillows, and soft objects.

Continue placing your baby on their back at the start of every sleep. Let them find their own position after that.

SIDS risk reduction

SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome) risk is highest in the first 4 months and decreases significantly after 12 months. Beyond the ABCs, these factors reduce risk:

  • Breastfeeding. Even partial breastfeeding for at least 2 months significantly lowers risk. Exclusive breastfeeding at 1 month cuts the risk in half.
  • Pacifier use at naptime and bedtime. Research shows pacifiers reduce SIDS risk by 50 to 90 percent. If breastfeeding, wait until nursing is established (usually 3 to 4 weeks) before introducing one. If the pacifier falls out during sleep, you do not need to replace it.
  • Room-sharing for the first 6 months (ideally 12 months). Baby sleeps in the parents' room on a separate surface. This alone reduces SIDS risk by up to 50 percent.
  • Avoid smoke exposure. Parental smoking during pregnancy and postnatal smoke exposure are significant independent risk factors for SIDS.
  • Avoid alcohol and sedating substances when caring for an infant, especially if there is any possibility of falling asleep with the baby.
  • Keep the room cool. Dress your baby in one layer more than what you are wearing. Overheating increases risk. Do not put hats on babies indoors after leaving the hospital.
  • Supervised tummy time when awake. Start soon after birth. Builds neck and shoulder strength, reduces flat-head risk.
  • Up-to-date immunizations. Evidence shows routine vaccines are protective, not a risk factor.

Baby Sleep Month by Month: What to Expect

Newborn (0-3 months)

Total sleep: 14 to 17 hours in 24 hours, in bursts of 2 to 4 hours.

Newborn sleep is irregular by design. If you are looking for a newborn sleep schedule, the honest answer is that there is none yet. Your baby does not have a circadian rhythm — day and night look the same to them. They sleep in short bursts around the clock, waking to feed, be changed, and seek comfort. This is biologically normal and not something to fix.

What is happening: Newborn sleep patterns begin shifting around 6 to 8 weeks as the circadian rhythm develops. You may notice your baby starting to have a slightly longer stretch of sleep at night by 8 to 12 weeks, typically 3 to 4 hours.

What you can do:

  • Follow your baby's cues, not a schedule. Sleepy signs: yawning, turning away from stimulation, fussing, jerky movements.
  • Expose your baby to natural light during the day and keep nights dark and quiet. This helps the circadian rhythm develop.
  • Night feeds should be calm, dim, and boring. Daytime feeds can be more social. This teaches day-from-night over time.
  • Do not worry about "bad habits." At this age, you cannot spoil your baby. Holding, rocking, and nursing to sleep are all appropriate.

Early baby (3-6 months)

Total sleep: 12 to 16 hours. Nighttime sleep consolidates; naps begin forming a pattern.

This is when baby sleep starts to look more organized. Many babies develop a longer nighttime stretch of 4 to 6 hours, and a baby sleep schedule begins to emerge (typically 3 naps: morning, midday, late afternoon).

What is happening: The circadian rhythm is establishing. At around 4 months, sleep architecture permanently changes — see the 4-month regression section below.

What you can do:

  • Begin a simple bedtime routine (dim lights, bath, feed, song, crib). The routine teaches your baby that sleep is coming.
  • Watch for sleep windows. Awake times are typically 1.5 to 2.5 hours at this age. Putting your baby down before they are overtired makes falling asleep easier.
  • Start offering the crib for at least one nap a day (even if other naps happen in a carrier or on-the-go).

Older baby (6-9 months)

Total sleep: 12 to 15 hours. Most babies are on 2 naps (morning and afternoon).

Baby sleep is more consolidated now. Many babies sleep 6 to 8 hours in their longest stretch, though 1 to 2 night wakings are still common and normal, especially for breastfed babies.

What is happening: Your baby is crawling, pulling to stand, and becoming more aware of separation. The 8-to-10-month regression may hit. Solid foods are beginning but do not reliably reduce night waking at this stage.

What you can do:

  • Keep the bedtime routine consistent. Your baby now recognizes the pattern.
  • Introduce a small comfort object during the routine (though it cannot stay in the crib until 12 months — hold it during stories, then remove it).
  • If your baby is practicing crawling or standing in the crib at night, give them plenty of practice during the day. New motor skills are exciting and can disrupt sleep temporarily.

Approaching toddlerhood (9-12 months)

Total sleep: 12 to 15 hours. Still on 2 naps, though some babies start resisting the second.

Baby sleep stretches are now 8 to 10 hours for many families. Night feeds may be down to 0 to 1, though some breastfed babies continue feeding once or twice.

What is happening: Walking (or nearly walking), first words, growing independence, and a strong sense of attachment to caregivers. Your baby may resist bedtime because being with you is more interesting than sleeping.

What you can do:

  • Bedtime routine is now well-established and your baby expects it. This is good — lean into it.
  • If the second nap is becoming a struggle, it may be time to start thinking about the 2-to-1 nap transition (this usually completes between 12 and 18 months).
  • Begin thinking about the sleep environment for the next stage. Will you transition to a floor bed soon? Start reading about floor bed readiness.

A note on "sleeping through the night"

This phrase is misleading. Sleep researchers define "sleeping through the night" as a 5-hour stretch, not 8 or 10. Most breastfed babies continue to wake for at least one feeding until 6 to 9 months. Some wake for night feeds well into their second year. This is normal baby sleep, especially for breastfed children. A baby who wakes once at night to feed is not a baby with a sleep problem.

The 4-Month Sleep Regression (Why It Matters Most)

The 4-month sleep regression is the most significant baby sleep change in the first year, and it is the one most often misunderstood.

What is actually happening

Around 3 to 5 months, your baby's sleep architecture permanently changes. Newborns cycle between just two sleep stages (active and quiet). Around 4 months, the brain matures into four distinct sleep stages — three non-REM stages plus REM — the same pattern adults have.

This means your baby now briefly surfaces between each sleep cycle, roughly every 45 to 60 minutes. At each of these transitions, they may wake partially and look for whatever conditions were present when they fell asleep.

Why this regression is different

Unlike other regressions, which are temporary, this change is permanent. Your baby's sleep has matured. It will not go back to the newborn pattern. However, your baby will gradually learn to navigate the transitions between cycles with less help.

What parents typically see

  • Night waking every 1 to 2 hours (even if the baby was sleeping longer stretches before).
  • Shorter naps (30 to 45 minutes — exactly one sleep cycle).
  • More difficulty falling asleep at bedtime.
  • New motor skills appearing at the same time (rolling, hand discovery), which adds to the disruption.

What to do

  • This is the age when a consistent bedtime routine starts to matter most. If you have not established one, now is the time.
  • Keep the room dark and calm. As sleep lightens between cycles, environmental disturbances are more likely to cause full waking.
  • Understand sleep associations. Whatever your baby associates with falling asleep (nursing, rocking, a pacifier) they will look for at each cycle transition. This is not inherently a problem, but it is worth understanding. If you are comfortable nursing or rocking back to sleep at each waking, that is fine. If it is becoming unsustainable, you can begin gently experimenting with putting your baby down slightly more awake.
  • Be patient. The worst of the disruption typically lasts 2 to 6 weeks. Your baby is learning a new skill — connecting sleep cycles — and it takes time.
  • Do not panic-change everything. This regression tempts many parents into dramatically changing the sleep approach. Small, gradual adjustments are more effective than an overhaul.

Other First-Year Regressions

AgeWhat is happeningWhat you may seeHow long it lasts
6 monthsSitting up, increased awareness, sometimes starting solidsMore night waking, nap disruptions, new separation protests1-3 weeks
8-10 monthsCrawling, pulling to stand, strong separation awareness, object permanenceWaking and practicing motor skills in the crib, clinginess at bedtime, crying when you leave the room2-6 weeks

How to handle all regressions: Stay consistent with the bedtime routine. Offer extra comfort and connection during the day. Avoid introducing new habits you will want to undo later. Trust that sleep will return to baseline when the developmental leap settles.

Breastfeeding, Night Nursing, and Sleep

Breastfeeding is one of the most effective things you can do for your baby's health and sleep safety. The WHO recommends breastfeeding until age 2 or beyond, and the AAP recommends breastfeeding for at least the first year, continuing as long as mutually desired. If you are formula-feeding, that is also completely fine — the routine-building principles in this guide apply to all families.

Nursing to sleep is biologically normal

Breast milk contains tryptophan and melatonin — hormones that help your baby fall asleep. Nursing to sleep is not a "bad habit" or a "sleep crutch." It is a biologically designed system that works. Much of the conventional sleep advice that frames it as a problem comes from an assumption that babies should sleep like adults. They should not — they are babies.

Night nursing frequency by age

Every baby is different, and breastfed babies nurse more frequently at night than formula-fed babies because breast milk digests faster. Here is a general pattern:

  • 0-3 months: Feeding every 2 to 3 hours around the clock, including through the night. Night feeds are essential for establishing milk supply and meeting caloric needs. They are not optional at this age.
  • 3-6 months: Most babies still feed 2 to 3 times per night. Some begin to stretch one longer interval of 4 to 6 hours. Babies who sleep longer are not "better" — they simply have different metabolic patterns.
  • 6-9 months: Typically 1 to 2 night feeds, though growth spurts and teething may temporarily increase waking. Starting solid foods does not reliably reduce night feeds at this stage.
  • 9-12 months: Many babies still feed once or twice at night. This is within the normal range. Some drop to zero night feeds naturally; others do not.

When is night weaning appropriate?

Before 6 months: Night feeds should not be eliminated. Babies need them for nutrition and milk supply regulation.

6-9 months: Some babies begin naturally dropping night feeds. If your baby wakes, feeds briefly, and falls back asleep quickly, the feed is serving its purpose. Do not force elimination.

9-12 months: Most healthy, full-term babies who are eating solid foods well during the day can go without nighttime calories. However, "can" does not mean "should." Night feeds may continue to serve important purposes including hydration, comfort, and connection. Gentle reduction is reasonable if night feeding is significantly disrupting the family, but there is no medical requirement to stop.

After 12 months: See our Montessori Sleep Guide for toddler-specific night weaning guidance and step-by-step approaches to evolving the nursing-to-sleep association.

Cluster feeding and sleep

Newborns and young babies often "cluster feed" in the evening — nursing frequently over 2 to 3 hours before a longer sleep stretch. This is normal and may actually help your baby sleep slightly longer. Do not try to prevent it or space out feeds on a schedule. Let your baby lead.

Co-Sleeping, Bed-Sharing, and Room-Sharing

These terms are often used interchangeably, but they mean different things:

  • Room-sharing: Baby sleeps in the same room on a separate surface (crib, bassinet, play yard).
  • Bed-sharing: Baby sleeps in the same bed as a parent.
  • Co-sleeping: An umbrella term that can include both.

What the AAP recommends

The AAP recommends room-sharing without bed-sharing for at least the first 6 months, and ideally the first 12 months. Room-sharing alone reduces the risk of SIDS by up to 50 percent because it makes it easier to feed, comfort, and monitor the baby.

The AAP does not recommend bed-sharing due to increased risk of sleep-related infant death. The risk is highest when:

  • The infant is under 4 months (5 to 10 times higher risk).
  • Either parent smokes (even if not smoking in bed), or the mother smoked during pregnancy.
  • Either parent has consumed alcohol, cannabis, sedating medications, or illicit drugs.
  • The bed has soft bedding (pillows, comforters, thick blankets near the baby).
  • There are other children or non-parent adults in the bed.
  • The surface is a couch, armchair, or waterbed.

The reality: many families bed-share

Despite official recommendations, bed-sharing is practiced by families worldwide — across Asia, Africa, Latin America, and many Indigenous communities where it has been the norm for generations. Research from countries like Japan, where co-sleeping rates are very high and SIDS rates are very low, suggests that the conditions of bed-sharing matter enormously.

Many parents also fall asleep while nursing, especially during the exhausting early months. The AAP acknowledges this: "It is less hazardous to fall asleep with the infant in the adult bed than on a sofa or armchair."

If your family bed-shares: harm reduction

If you choose to bed-share or recognize that you may fall asleep while nursing, these steps significantly reduce risk. The following criteria, sometimes called the "Safe Sleep Seven" by La Leche League International, describe the lowest-risk conditions:

  1. Mother is a nonsmoker (and did not smoke during pregnancy).
  2. Mother is sober — no alcohol, drugs, or sedating medications.
  3. Mother is breastfeeding. Breastfeeding mothers naturally position themselves in a protective "C-curl" around the baby that reduces overlay risk.
  4. Baby is healthy and full-term (not premature or low birth weight).
  5. Baby is on their back.
  6. Baby is lightly dressed (no overheating risk).
  7. The surface is a firm, flat adult mattress with no soft bedding, pillows near the baby, gaps between mattress and headboard/wall, or other children or pets in the bed.

Important: Even under ideal conditions, some risk remains. The safest arrangement for an infant is always a separate, firm, flat surface in the parents' room. These guidelines are about harm reduction, not risk elimination.

Practical tip for night nursing in bed: Before you begin feeding, remove all pillows and blankets from near the baby's position. If you wake and find you have fallen asleep, move the baby back to their own surface. Prepare the bed to be as safe as possible every time, just in case.

Cultural context

In many cultures, room-sharing and bed-sharing are not choices — they are the default, practiced safely for generations. If your family comes from a tradition where co-sleeping is the norm, you are not doing anything wrong by continuing it. The key is to follow the harm-reduction guidelines above, especially in the first 6 months when risk is highest.

Building Baby Sleep Routines

You cannot sleep train a newborn. But you can build rhythm and predictability from the very beginning — and a consistent baby sleep routine is the single most useful tool you have. Even before the floor bed and the Montessori bedroom, you can apply the core Montessori thinking: observe your baby, respect their rhythm, and prepare a calm environment.

Newborn routine (0-3 months)

There is no newborn sleep routine in the traditional sense yet. You are laying foundations through repetition.

  1. Watch for sleep cues: yawning, turning away, fussing, jerky arm movements.
  2. Dim lights and reduce stimulation when you notice cues.
  3. Change diaper. Swaddle if your baby is not yet rolling.
  4. Feed (breast or bottle) in a calm, dimly lit space.
  5. Hold upright briefly for burping.
  6. Place in crib or bassinet on their back, drowsy or asleep.

What your baby does independently: Nothing, and that is completely appropriate. Your job is to respond, not train.

Baby routine (3-6 months)

Sleep begins to consolidate. A recognizable routine starts to form.

  1. Dim lights in the house 30 minutes before the target bedtime.
  2. Warm bath (brief and calm, not play time).
  3. Dress in sleep clothes or sleep sack; narrate what you are doing.
  4. Nurse or bottle in a quiet, dimly lit space.
  5. One short book or a quiet song.
  6. Place in crib on their back, drowsy but not fully asleep.

What your baby does independently: Very little. They may self-soothe with hand-sucking or head-turning. You are building the rhythm they will eventually own.

Older baby routine (6-12 months)

The routine is well-established and your baby begins to anticipate the next step.

  1. Dim lights 30 minutes before bed.
  2. Warm bath (your baby may begin to splash and explore).
  3. Dress in sleep clothes; narrate each step.
  4. Nurse or bottle in a quiet space.
  5. One or two short books (your baby may begin to pat the pages or point).
  6. Place in crib drowsy but not fully asleep, or lay beside them on a floor bed if transitioning.

What your baby does independently: Beginning to recognize and participate in the pattern — reaching for a book, patting the mattress, pulling a comfort object close (after 12 months in the crib). These small signs of participation are the earliest seeds of the independence that Montessori bedtime routines build on.

Getting Ready for the Floor Bed

The Montessori floor bed is one of the most popular questions parents have. Here is the short version for the first year.

Floor beds are not recommended for babies under 12 months

The AAP recommends a crib, bassinet, or play yard that meets federal safety standards for all infants under 12 months. A mattress on the floor, regardless of firmness, does not meet these standards because:

  • There is no defined, tested sleeping area like a crib provides.
  • Babies can become trapped between the mattress and walls or furniture.
  • There is unrestricted access to floor-level hazards (cords, outlets, small objects).

When is a floor bed appropriate?

There is no official AAP endorsement of floor beds at a specific age. The practical pediatric consensus:

  • 18 months to 3 years is the typical transition window.
  • The child should walk independently and move safely around the room.
  • The entire room must be fully childproofed — anchored furniture, covered outlets, no cords, no gaps between mattress and wall.
  • For children under 2, use a firm crib mattress even on the floor. Regular adult mattresses are too soft.

Signs your baby is getting close to ready

  • Climbing out of the crib (or clearly about to).
  • Walking independently and able to get on and off a low mattress safely.
  • Showing interest in a "big kid" bed.

Do not rush it. A crib is a perfectly good sleep space for as long as it works. When your child is ready, see our Montessori Sleep Guide (1-6) for the complete floor bed transition plan, age-by-age bedtime routines with real choices, and everything that makes Montessori sleep powerful for toddlers and preschoolers.

When to Call the Pediatrician

Most newborn sleep and baby sleep concerns are normal developmental patterns, not medical problems. However, talk with your pediatrician if:

  • Your baby snores regularly or seems to stop breathing briefly during sleep (possible sleep apnea — more common in premature babies).
  • Your baby is extremely difficult to wake or seems excessively sleepy even after adequate sleep hours.
  • Your baby sleeps significantly more or less than the recommended range for their age and you cannot identify why.
  • Your baby has not developed any longer sleep stretches by 6 months despite consistent routines and a calm environment.
  • You notice unusual movements during sleep (rhythmic jerking, stiffening) that concern you.
  • Your baby is not gaining weight appropriately and you suspect sleep-related feeding issues.
  • You are struggling with postpartum mood changes and sleep deprivation is making it worse. Your health matters too. Ask for help.

Baby Sleep in the First Year: FAQ

How much should a newborn sleep?

Newborns (0-3 months) sleep 14 to 17 hours in 24 hours, but in short bursts of 2 to 4 hours around the clock. They do not have a circadian rhythm yet, so day and night look the same. This is biologically normal and not something to fix. The circadian rhythm begins developing around 6 to 8 weeks.

When can my baby have a blanket in the crib?

After 12 months. Before that, use a wearable blanket or sleep sack instead. The crib should be completely bare for the first year — no blankets, pillows, stuffed animals, or bumper pads. At 12 months you can introduce a lightweight blanket and a small stuffed animal. Pillows should wait until at least 24 months.

When should I stop swaddling my baby?

Stop swaddling as soon as your baby shows any signs of trying to roll over. Rolling can begin as early as 2 months, though 3 to 4 months is more common. Once rolling starts, the swaddle becomes a suffocation risk because it restricts the arms needed for repositioning. Transition to a sleep sack with free arm movement.

What is the 4-month sleep regression?

Around 4 months, your baby's sleep architecture permanently changes from newborn-style two-stage sleep to adult-style four-stage sleep cycles. This causes more frequent waking as the baby briefly surfaces between cycles (every 45 to 60 minutes). It is not a phase that passes — the new sleep pattern is permanent. However, your baby will gradually learn to connect cycles with less help. See the full section above for what to do.

Is it safe to co-sleep with my baby?

The AAP recommends room-sharing (baby on a separate surface nearby) for at least the first 6 months, which reduces SIDS risk by up to 50%. The AAP does not recommend bed-sharing due to increased risk, especially for babies under 4 months, and when combined with smoking, alcohol, or soft bedding. If you do bed-share, following harm-reduction guidelines (nonsmoking, sober, breastfeeding, firm surface, no loose bedding) significantly lowers the risk. See the co-sleeping section for full details.

When can my baby sleep through the night without feeding?

"Sleeping through the night" in sleep research means a 5-hour stretch, not 8 or 10. Most healthy, full-term babies eating solid foods well can go without nighttime calories by 9 to 12 months. However, many breastfed babies continue one night feed well into the second year for comfort and connection, which is normal and supported by the WHO. There is no medical requirement to night wean by a specific age.

When is a floor bed safe for my baby?

The AAP recommends a crib, bassinet, or play yard that meets federal safety standards for all infants under 12 months. Floor beds are not among the AAP-approved surfaces for this age group. Most pediatricians and sleep consultants consider a floor bed appropriate between 18 months and 3 years, once the child walks independently and the room is fully childproofed. For the complete floor bed transition plan, see our Montessori Sleep Guide.

Is nursing to sleep a bad habit?

No. Breast milk contains tryptophan and melatonin — hormones designed to help your baby fall asleep. Nursing to sleep is biologically normal and meets a real need. It does not prevent your child from eventually learning to fall asleep independently. If and when you want to separate nursing from the moment of falling asleep, you can do so gradually. There is no deadline.

What comes next

Baby sleep in the first year is about safety, rhythm, and responding to your child's needs. The Montessori approach to sleep independence — floor beds, bedtime routines with real choices, and growing autonomy — really comes alive after 12 months.

When your child is ready, our Montessori Sleep Guide (1-6) picks up exactly where this guide leaves off: floor bed transitions, age-by-age bedtime routines, sleep regressions through age 6, night terrors and nightmares, and all the practical challenges of toddler and preschooler sleep.

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